I Killed HIS Baby.
I almost never reblog, but this post is worth it. When I was in my early twenties I head a friend who got his girlfriend pregnant. He wanted the baby, she did not. He offered to take full custody the moment it was born, never inconvenience her or even make her see it. She refused. He got a lawyer who told him “you have no rights until it’s born – and if it’s never born you never have any rights.” In the end she aborted it. I remember him coming over to our place that night and crying because he had wanted that baby. So many times we forget as a society that the baby is also the man’s. Yes, there are men that don’t want them, but there are those that do. An excellent post from someone who has been through it.